As the man of the house  it is our duty to think of others before ourselves...when all others are taken care of then we worry about ourselves...for if we want  to be looked at as the protectors of  our house  then we must be willing to put ourselves last in order to protect the integrity of the Unit. Money is just one component  of many for a real man spends his most valuable resource on the family.... and that is his time. Be not afraid to admit that we are not perfect  but rather embrace the chance to be better than we were. Never be afraid to show love for love is a more powerful force than hate. To love is not to be week but to love is to be strong. A real man  shows real love...Remember respect is gained through your actions.